She told me she wanted me. She told me how much she liked me and cared. She told me how right it felt, how right my arms felt around her. She told me I made her feel like the most beautiful woman in the universe. She told me she wanted to take it slow because she didn’t want to screw it up like she had before. She told me only a half an hour after kissing me goodbye from dinner that she changed her mind and she didn’t want to see me anymore. She lied to me and when I called her a liar she said she took offense because she was not a liar. She just “reconsidered” the matter. Who the f*** uses “reconsider” as a term to deal with human emotions. I hope she chokes on her lies and dies.
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I find this hard to believe. what did she do? call you on the mobile? if it is true just put it down to maybe drinking too much over dinner or that she may just not be into that much. people unfortunately change their mind and hurt others. we have all been there and its painful. try doing back to someone and see how it makes them feel if you need to offload the emotions. do it back to her even? or just throw in the toilet and start looking for someone better.
people often rush into the moment of a kiss but that does not equal a guarantee of commitment or sex or anything. maybe you should tell the next lady who gets serious “don’t kiss me unless you mean it, I am the sensitive type.” sex and romance is a confusing game. never ever do anything without asking her if its what she wants. golden rule!
if you have a re-bound feeling be careful not to fall for just the next chick. if you have hot sexual energy left over go to a prostitute and let it out, and learn how to control your sexual needs.
its sounds like to me she thought she might like you and has maybe been burnt and that makes us more cautious and more confused, hurt and likely to hurt another.
let it cool off or find someone new. chill out and stop worry about it. everyone experiences this sort of thing now.
she may have felt compelled to kiss you to avoid looking a frigid bitch and she really did not like you but did not know how to tell you til later. girls are taught often to be sexually open to men who apply a little pressure or show power etc. girls sometimes feel that they have to sexually please any man when deep down they don’t want to. so don’t read into anything without talking before hand. you must ask a girl how she really feels about you before taking an action to stay or go or make a sexual move. girls want men to say stuff like “are you sure you want this?” “how can I make it better?” or “can I kiss you or hug you” etc
she wanted to like you but deep down she was not ready to. she maybe a virgin or has been so hurt she is afraid to get physical or emotional. you should never use power as a weapon in sex with a woman. this will kill love!
I would work on your romance skills more and physical appearance! and communication skills. girls are often afraid to be forward sexually or even demand want they want sexually. and you will find girls who do have the confidence to demand what they want sexually are more likely to be much more sexually experienced or at least not a virgin and they may have been raped.
try to be kind and see it from her view and just yours. your pride has been hurt but she may have serious sexual issues that are inside her got nothing to do with you.