I’m a fairly prominent member of an online community where I constantly post about dude stuff like heavy metal, horror movies, and pro wrestling, and I’ve amassed a decently sized social media following because of this. I love that stuff and always have.
Nobody knows, or even suspects, that I’m actually a tiny little 5’0″, 95lb Asian girl. I hide this deliberately because it’s like 99% dudes and I know they’d treat me differently. I’ve seen it happen a bunch of times. There are many cool dudes but a lot of creeps too, who swarm on every girl who signs up to the forums – either to try to get with her, or to try to white-knight her against the creeps. Especially the ones with a race fetish. Nobody hits on me when they think I’m a guy, nobody’s afraid to argue with me or sugarcoat what they say when they think I’m a guy, and nobody thinks it’s weird that some of my biggest interests are Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Enslaved, and Dean Ambrose, when they think I’m a guy. Sometimes though, I just want to post a picture of myself and blow their minds.
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I can see where you’re coming from. It’s sad but true that if you were to reveal your gender things would change. You’re not alone, though. I’m a woman who also loves pirate metal, horror movies and video games. Total geek over here.
Have the same problem create an alt account and just see how it goes
A 5’0″, 95 lb asian girl who loves wrestling and heavy metal?
YOU ARE MY FETISH.
Dean Ambrose is awesome. He reminds me of Roddy Piper or Brian Pillman.
Dude, babam! Me too! I don’t like people in general, that’s why I set myself as male on nearly everything. x_x It gets rid of unwanted chatting. Majority of the time.