Im 13 years old and I have something very wrong with me. When i look in the mirror i think i am beautiful and i think i look better than everyone else. No one tells me im pretty except my family so i have no reason to think this. I know im ugly but its like ive convinced myself that i am pretty and i can’t get it out of my head. I cut myself to try and punish myself for feeling like this but its not working. Am i insane? Help me.
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OMG girl! You have been given a gift! I highly doubt that you are ugly, but even if you are, you need to have confidence in yourself. Don’t punish yourself for thinking that! Chances are, you a freaking gorgeous and no one has said anything because they are jealous. Confidence is what makes a girl pretty. Have confidence that you are pretty. Confidence is what every girl needs to have and you are so lucky you have it. You have no idea how many girls hate the way they look. Rock the confidence and even if you aren’t pretty, you will appear pretty. Just don’t flaunt it or you will sound like narcissist. You go girl!
OK, so there is nothing wrong with confidence. The problem is that a lot of teenagers don’t know where to stop with the confidence before it sounds cocky. So just try to be confident but don’t act like you’re better than everyone else. Also make sure you don’t make friends based on their looks. Treat people according to their personalities. I mean, you wouldn’t want to be around people that constantly make fun of other people. Talking bad about other people is no confidence, it is cowardice. Also realize, you are 13, you are not done growing up.