I take off of work to

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I take off of work to drive 4 hours back to my hometown for probation meetings, and I’m about to be done with it after a whole year. The only thing is, my girlfriend doesn’t know I’m on probation. We’ve been together 2 years. My job also thinks I’m taking off for doctors appointments every month. It’s been very depressing.

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  • Nothing like a relationship based on lies.
    Let us know when you lose your job and your girl. It’s a matter of time.

    Or – how about coming clean? TRUST IS IMPORTANT.

    Anonymous September 23, 2014 4:53 am Reply
  • Wtf?

    Its all about perception.

    Why do you feel the need to TELL ON YOURSELF BRO?

    This was a simple mistake that not most people make but you are unique…

    Those eyes, that smile…

    They will continue to conceal what shouldn’t matter UNLESS this arrest was a sexual assault motivated type or a pedophilia arrest, perhaps a violent crime towards the elderly or minors…

    Then, yeah it will come out.

    Otherwise, LOOSE LIPS SINK SHIPS!!

    Continue to lie like a fine Persian rug unless lonely-life works for you.

    All else fails tell them its impossible because…..ITS NOT YOU.

    IDENTITY FRAUD IS GINORMOUS THESE “LAST-DAYS”

    Best wishes, DEATH TO SNITCHES….even on yourself…NEVER TELL!!!

    Anonymous September 23, 2014 10:43 am Reply
  • Honesty is calm and freeing. Lies busy a person with constantly building the fake personas you construct. Also people always see you for what you really are anyhow, a liar. We actually feel sorry for the shallow way you go through life. Honest people are living while you go about in your fake, superficial world wasting time.

    Anonymous September 23, 2014 11:01 am Reply
  • I’ve never been to prison, and I don’t plan to go, but I wouldn’t want to live with the brand — being an ex-con. Everyone’s all “lock ’em up,” but that means that more and more people are going to get out at some point, and they’re going to need to fit back into society, too. It’s something that most people would rather ignore. People see ex-prisoners differently, fairly or unfairly. It’s hard enough to find a job. As an ex-con? Hoo boy, that limits your options.

    You’re making your meetings, you’ve got a job and a girlfriend. You must be doing something right. If you’ve only got a year to go, keep your mouth closed and come clean, if ever, after it’s all done. Even if you’re making good choices now, you can’t really trust that people will be compassionate about this one. Keep it under wraps.

    Anonymous September 23, 2014 1:14 pm Reply

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