I have been married for 6 years and have not had s** with my husband.
He is not confident of having s**. At times I feel like to to another man but my love for him stops me.
I love him but I need physical love too. I don’t know what to do.
I have been married for 6 years and have not had s** with my husband.
He is not confident of having s**. At times I feel like to to another man but my love for him stops me.
I love him but I need physical love too. I don’t know what to do.
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You’ve been married for 6 years and never had sex with him?
Did I understand correctly?
K.O.W.
That is very strange. Have you ever had sex with him before? You need to confront him about this as a wife and as a person who loves and cares for him. Assure him that you will work with him to solve any of his fears. And you are right, sex is very important. It’s not the most important thing in a relationship, but it’s still very important. It is perfectly normal to want it.
T.A.
yes you did understand it right. 6 years and no sex.
I have never had sex with him before as well.I have told him in all possible ways and have been with him always.but m losing control and patience now.I have lost confidence in myself . Is divorce the best option in this case.
I just have 2 options divorce or adultery.
He needs therapy of some kind to find out what the problem is. You shouldn’t have gone this long in a marriage where your needs are being completely ignored.
3, No, you shouldn’t even be considering adultery. That’s a terrible thing to do, no matter your reasons. You should talk to him. Be very confident with him. Tell him what you want.
T.A.
T.A. are you married?
6, No, I am not married. Why? Do you want to marry me? It can be arranged.
T.A.
I’m available to!!
T.A., maybe.
6.
I am married so don’t try to make me divorce, ok ? 😀
Have you spoken to him about it? and what is his response? Did he have a bad experience? was he coming directly from another relationship when you guys started dating? how long did you date before marriage? Was there petting during the datign period?
hi…nothing seems to be improving between us….he feels guilty of it all the time…all physical tests done and everything seems fine physically. Docs recommend psychotherapist to him as he has lost confidence in himself, and that is the reason of him not doing anything about it. At times, i really want to leave him, but , then I realize I will be leaving him at the time wen he needs me the most. I really don’t know what to do?