I can’t stand my wife. She does nothing but cry and complain and white about how her life is so bad when she doesn’t have to work or do household chores. She also makes a big fuss over the littlest problem but for nothing to rectify the issue. I am so mad at myself for marrying this giant ball of negativity and believe that this was easily the biggest mistake of my life. I have tried to be open minded, understanding and accepting of the fact that she has border line mental issues but if she refuses to help herself, improve the situation and do something about all that unnecessary negativity, there is no future for us because I refuse to live my life like this. We are currently separated because she had “issues” coping with her oh so stressful life. It is awful but I sincerely wish I could just stop responding to emails / texts / calls and then she would eventually fade away from my life.