I can’t get him out of my head no matter how hard I try to. As I try to avoid him and anything in my life that connects to him, he reappears. It is unfair for my current boyfriend which I have loved dearly for over 8 years. I hope time helps and I will try my best and hardest to keep a distance. I know he doesn’t share the same feelings I am feeling and sometimes I just want to confess to him and get the rejection I need to get over him. However, we just have too many friends in common and I would not like to make it awkward. Talking about it here makes the process a little easier. Thank you.