Before we started dating, my girlfriend was in great shape and was a really exciting and fun person. Even in the early days of our relationship she was very gung ho about s** and being exciting (non-s** or s** related). It’s been a year and a half and she’s really let herself go and has become a generally boring person who doesn’t like to do stuff and has a very low s** drive. I know communication is important in a relationship, but every time I bring it up she guilts me for “making her feel bad about herself”, even though I bring up the topic as nice as possible. I don’t know what to do.
