my boss and i have this strange mutual infatuation with each other. we are both in long-term relationships. i know his girlfriend, he knows my boyfriend. neither of us ever spoke on the feelings but we can’t help but subtly act on them. we make eyes at each other, i bring him lunch, he takes me out, we hug a lot. everything is so vanilla between us and at the same time, there is an immense amount of s***** tension. the aforementioned hugs? long lasting embrace-fests, complete with manly cooing and full on pelvis-to-pelvis contact. every now and again he’ll be speaking to me and will use “the voice”. you know the one. everyone knows it. the bedroom voice. he compliments me daily. he smiles that devilish, knowing smile. he even finds any little reason to lightly touch me. all blame cast not onto he, because i often don revealing work clothes and prance about the office. i “accidentally” drop things, i lean a little too far over desks, i even make him walk with me while I walk my dog because