she doesn’t deserve him. she treats him badly, she’s constantly getting angry at him over stupid little things and even physically abusive with him at times. she pushes him away, gets him riled up and then purposely leaves him there without following through. she’s admitted to me that she feels bad she doesn’t give him what he wants more, yet she wont change anything or let him get it elsewhere. she doesn’t do anything around the house, she’s lazy and overly emotional and almost everyone else I know who’s met her agrees. yet he still treats her like she’s the best thing ever. at the same time, he and I have actual chemistry and he’s admitted he’s interested but he “can’t hurt her” so he’s denying himself something that might actually make him happy for someone who doesn’t even treat him right in the first place. it’s frustrating and I feel bad for him, but I don’t know what else to do to help him except for wait it out until things eventually blow up between them, and then be there for him