My husband confessed to me before we got married that he crossed dressed. I was okay with it but now I think it’s more than just cross dressing and that he’s gay. I know he’s been faking his orgasms for years and it’s been almost as long since he’s been able to bring me to o*****.

He’s now started to wear plain woman’s clothing everyday and no longer hides any of it. I’m no longer attracted to him. We’ve had s** only once in the past year and even then it lasted only minutes before he stopped because he couldn’t keep it hard enough to keep going. I never ask him anymore and I don’t think he minds.

Now a friend I’ve known from before I got married has been contacting me on Facebook. I was never attracted to him before but now I find myself fantasizing about him all the time. I don’t know if want to leave my husband but I need a real man in my life.