I’m a 17 year old girl who is a junior in high school. When I was in 6th grade, my father, who I was very close to, left my family. It was so long ago that I truly don’t think about it that much. I’m not sure if this is even relevant, but I thought I’d put it in here anyway.
I’ve noticed over a few years that I am very attracted to older men/men of authority. It’s men who are in their late 20’s, early 30’s, and maybe mid 30’s. My friends always joke because when we’re in public and I see a “hot dad” or hot older guy, I’ll kiddingly point it out and they think it’s funny. But they don’t know that I actually truly do feel that way. I’m also attracted to teachers, coaches I’ve had before, and even my school counselor.
It’s to the point that if one of those older men I notice/teachers/coaches, etc were to hit on me or ask me out on a date, I would say yes or flirt back.
I don’t know what this means or what to do.
