I think I’m addicted to s**.

I’ve had a loving boyfriend for just over 4 years now, and I really do love him. But we don’t have s** nearly as often as I’d like (I’m usually lucky if we do it once a month). I came close to cheating on him with a few different guys over a year ago, but those times never ended up going anywhere. Recently though, I have had s** with two of our friends behind his back – one of which I’ve had feelings for for over a year. I still have occasional s** with one of them, but I don’t see the other guy anymore. I feel bad, but I also have a much more casual attitude about s** than he does. I know this doesn’t make cheating right, but I just can’t seem to stop…

A few months ago, we moved in with another couple that we’re friends with and I realized that I am VERY MUCH attracted to my (male) roommate. I want to act on it, and I know his s** life isn’t very good so he probably wouldn’t take too much convincing, but this time feels different because I’m close with the girl roommate too. I’m constantly torn between acting on my impulses and not acting, because I want him so f****** BAD but i know it’s not right…