my boyfriend of more than three years and I were long distance for the first couple of years. we never got much physical contact unfortunately. when we were able to see each other, we could scarcely keep our hands to ourselves. recently we got an apartment together. everything is going wonderfully aside from our s** life. i looked into every possible thing that could be contributing to it and we have had multiple conversations about it. he has mood disorders that impact his libido and while i can acknowledge that, i am very insecure in my own skin, therefore, i feel as if he’s not s******* attracted to me a lot of the time. i feel extremely guilty for having that thought but it seems that way sometimes. a young couple living together with a previously healthy s** life, only having s** twice or so a month is abnormal and i feel deprived. i dont know what to do.
