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Dave’s story

I never thought that I could be raped. After all, I am a strong 19-year-old man capable of defending myself.

I met this amazing guy at uni. He was so romantic and always treated me well. He was more s******* experienced than I was, but respectful of my fear of s**. He assured me that I would learn to like it, just as he had.

He started to do things to help me get comfortable. Then one time he just started to have s** with me without my consent. I cried out for him to stop but he kept going. I felt ashamed that I didn’t feel comfortable about s**. It was my fault. But I also felt angry that he didn’t stop when I asked him to.

I told some of my gay friends afterwards but they just teased me and suggested that if I didn’t put out, someone else would. We had s** for several weeks before I talked to a counsellor and realised that I had the right to say no. And the time that I did say no and he continued, that was r***. When I told my boyfriend, he was offended and dumped me.

It took me a long time to recover from it and trust anyone again. But now I know that I can say no when I want to and people have to respect that. I now enjoy having s** again.

Dave’s story is about a gay guy being raped, but remember that heterosexual guys can be raped as well.

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