If I was your ex and you hurt me in any way leaving, hurt us both, just because…. I wouldn’t want to see you again after a certain point. I’d kind of be angry that you hold feelings, and like I said, you hurt us both. Anger. A weed. You’re stupid is more like it. I would want to be mean and cruel and hurt you. Just be an a******. If you ever expected anything out of me. I wouldn’t approach and I would avoid/evade. Knowing me.
When it comes right down to it, your kids have to be worth more than anything to you. They should be the thing that makes the loss of anything prior, even if it was intentional loss that you instigated, you threw it away, worth the loss.