what you are going through is what guys have been dealing with forever. a wife’s lack of attention in the bedroom is the number one, listen up ladies, number one worst thing you can do to screw up a good marriage. guys want s**. get that through your head. you want a clean house. you want a nice dinner. we want good s**. we want blowjobs. we want multiple positions in order for our penises to feel good. get it? after 5-10 years women conveniently forget “dating s**” when they are at their best behavior and transform into the “marriage s**” phase. big reason we have a 51% divorce rate, women.
guys minds will turn to whomever shows them the love, and rarely can a healthy guy reverse course when a wife dismisses good s** as “the husband’s vice”, as your wife did. trust me on this one, pal, you are not alone in the world married to a great wife in all categories but s**. it’s a dealbreaker, and she probably won’t do a thing about it until it gets to the breaking point. that’s the rub…
s** is a top 3 for guys in marriage and out. s** is about a top 15 for married women. that’s just how it is. i love it when gals get together and talk s**, i’ve heard ’em at parties and such talk about their guys…they talk a big show, “we do it all over the house, every room, then he cums 3 times before it’s over, baby”. all bullsh*t to impress their friends. then, all the women go home and lock up their vaginas and lips for bedtime. lol…this is how most women view s**. you dated her and she did it all, she was the best, now in marriage…she ain’t all that and a bag of chips.
if you have exhausted every means available to get her right with you in the sack, maybe it is time to play your trump card. everybody, sadly it seems, has an expiration date. i wish it weren’t so, but it is. ever see senior citizen couples that have been married forever just so damned angry with each other all the time? life is too short to be with someone who is not on the same page. the seriousness of what she is doing is jeopardzing your marriage and will force you to act on female advances in the future…just count on it. that’s me telling you, don’t tell her that but you’ve got to sell the fact that this isn’t working. if she will not give you the key to her chastity belt…well…don’t make me say it…
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Sounds like you been cheatin’! But yeah, a big chunk of the excitment of a relationship comes from the physical expressions of love. No sex = weak relationship.
T.A.
Well yeah you’re right sex and physical/all sorts of communication are the most parts of marriage, but ever stopped to wonder why she doesn’t want you to touch her in the first place? wow i mean i feel like slapping you for all these things you said. if you’re unhappy just leave. talk to her about it, she doesn’t get it then you did what u had to do.
I’m getting married to my sex-buddy 😀 We started dating a few years after we started sleeping together. Seems to me that sexual compatability is vital for any relationship to actually work. And sex keeps it that way.