I have a major crush on a man at work. (I am also male)

He is 30 years younger than I am. He is so nice to me, always smiling and offering to help me with various things. Once he put his hand on my shoulder briefly, gave it a pat, and I thought I was going to melt. He has no idea that I am gay. His wife is beautiful (he keeps a photo on his desk). Lately I have been trying to come up with a reason to invite him on a trip out of town so I can share a hotel room and see him undressed.

I think he would go for it if it was for a ball game or something he enjoys. I wouldn’t try anything, I just would like the visual of his naked body.