Once upon a time, I lost my phone at walmart after a long day at the lake and meeting my serious bf’s brother and his kids + wife (we had been living together for the better part of a year and seeing each other longer but his brother lived in Germany on deployment). My best friend was with us for most of this and I had noticed that she and my bf had been messaging quite a bit, but they were friends and I was still trying to ignore how bad of a relationship it was. So I ask him if I can use his phone to message my mom on fb and tell her I lost my phone. I open messanger to log into mine and message her, but the app opens to his messages with my best friend and before I can click out my eyes catch on the words “do you think she knows”. Those words haunt me. I obviously read the couple of messages before that in which he said that he loved the noises she made while he was buried inside her.

I didnt say one word about it, but I was dying inside. His brother and family were in the room, I was in tears and excused myself before walking into the next room to “call my mom”.

Skip the 4 hours of torture and wondering what to do (I had nowhere else to go and actually lived with said bff before him) and I asked to use the phone again to call Walmart, but honestly I just wanted to confirm I wasnt loosing my mind.

Her: “Do you think she knows”
Her: “Why didnt you respond?”
Him: “She had my phone! This is why I dont have girlfriends.”

I didnt say anything. I went to bed in agony. He slept next to me and also acted like it was okay. He broke the next morning and layed it all out. I went and got drunk then moved out 3 days later. She messaged me 6 months later telling me that she was pregnant right when I was getting my life back in order. Broke me all over again. Turns out she wasnt pregnant.

Been 2 years and they are still together, and they deserve each other. Manipulative bull was all either of them ever spewed into the world.