I’m trying to hook my long-term boyfriend up with his ex because I want him to break up with me. When I try to break up it fails because I can’t stand seeing him cry. She was his first love, is closer to his type (curvy, blonde, short, high-maintenance), and is still into him. I don’t understand why he won’t just end it with me now that’s she’s back. I love him but we aren’t right for each other. Ugh.