Mr “if you really knew this guy, you wouldn’t be saying dear”, to which the young lady continues to call me dear and honey a d compliment my haircut and tell me she is always happy to see me.

I really don’t know what his problem is or what his interest in me is. I think he thinks I fucked his wife who is/was friends with my best friend’s wife, which I didn’t and if I’m being honest, I probably could have, but the problem is that fact that she is married to him is a huge turn off. I judge women on the schlubs they date. My job requires me to be polite, and I am, but I don’t like this guy.

Married, he has been doing the same schlub scrub job for over 25 years, married, 2 kids in their early/mid 20’s by now, and why? Why on earth would you do that to yourself if you know you are working a schlub job and will be for the rest of your life?

We don’t know each other from a hole in the ground and like I said personally, I’m alright with that. I have zero interest in what goes on with you, how’s the wife, the kids, divorced yet? I don’t care. I simply don’t care

This guy though, just the statement “if you really kn w this guy” first of all YOU don’t know me. In any way shape or form. That’s a fact. I know that. He sees this young girl, she is very sweet, I like her. I am not asking for it, I’m not trying, it just flows and it but there the s*** out of him. I see it on his face while it’s happening.

He is sneaky though. It’s almost funny. He has asked me, years ago straight up around a holiday “You got any kids” my answer is “No…???” and he can tell I am irritated by him getting personal. Even if I did, I the answer to you would be “no” because first of all, I am a private person, I don’t like you, and you potentially have ties to people I don’t want anything to do with.

So this past Friday, this is a spring break week where I am from. I guess it was busy at his schlub job on Friday becise of that. He says they’re busy. He had just come back from a smoke which he headed to his car for when I showed up. I believe he saw me, went to his car, and thought about how to ask me again indirectly. He figured out a way. It was the spring break thing. Spring break, I said “Oh yeah, I forgot about that… didn’t even realize…” He goes Oh yeah, I guess your kids are all grown up…” I said “MAN! I don’t have kids” how the f*** do you think I stay so f****** rich working where I do!?” Which is still better than what he does. It was kind of a way for me to rub it in his face. You wanna be a big man? Do what’s expected even when you are ill equipped, uneducated, s***** job, you get married early, pop out a few kids, screw yourself for life? Have at er. I’m single in amazing shape, we are roughly th same age, I might ght even be older