Seriously, you should not need to provide anything for a woman other than yourself.

If you do… You need to question her trust feelings and intentions. If you get with a woman who into you simply because you “provide” you could be a millionaire… eventually… She’ll be looking elsewhere for the physical attention. I always think about the song by The Eagles “Lyin’ eyes” not that I am a fan of The Eagles, that’s not my style, but it really is the way things work.

People should get with their others who are their equal. Forget what you have financially, well keep it in mind you need to be self aware about what you are and what you have because you need to find a woman in the same position as you, a woman who doesn’t need anything, but if you are a fat irritating turd, no matter how much money or assets you have… do not get yourself mixed up with a big tited chick, who needs a provider and calls you a “coward” (???) if you don’t want to provide for her and her 3 kids from 3 different men, because she is hot. Unfortunately you need to go find your mirror.

That is the only way you can be sure it’s real. Find a woman who doesn’t need anything but you. If you want something real. If you just want to f***, that’s a different story, that’s not serious, it doesn’t matter, do what you need to do to get it, and let it go, but it sounds like you want something real. You need to find a woman who is your equal or greater and doesn’t need anything but a relationship.

Of course you need to like each other physically and personality wise too, it’s not as cut and dry as that, you need to be what she needs as a person, but in 2023…. That’s the only way you are gonna get anything worth anything. That’s the way she goes.

It ain’t easy out there…there’s a lot of duds floating around. Some people have a warped sense of what gets a good “partner”. There’s a lot of “turds” out there, men who are literally germs their entire life. They are the furthest thing from attractive in any way. Physically and they don’t know how to act, what to say, what’s hot, they are clueless and they always have been. They are unattractive. They decide on high school, they are going to go to school, be rich, and then they can have anything they want. And that might be true, but can they hang onto it? They are still the same unattractive schlub they were in high school, but now they have lots of money. U less their woman is as unattractive as they are…. Do you really think she is going to want to stay with this unattractive germ for the rest of her life? Money only gets you so far. How long can it keep her satisfied, if at all? It’s a jungle out there.

More often than not, you’re better of alone.