Most guys, most of which are absolute losers, will look at a situation an no matter how stacked the odds are against them and their happiness, their contentment etc is in the long run, you see it clearly, you know it, they will take what they get until they inevitable end up alone and miserable WHEN, not if, but when it falls through. It played itself out and has come to an end where nobody involved could possibly end up happy. It’s toxic, it’s over, it’s not good, which you would have seen coming from the start.
I look at a situation like that, and even if I love her on some level and wish we were together and doing things, if I see a mess and a lot of pain in the future, I leave it alone. I don’t fight, I don’t trash, I don’t protest, I don’t take it out on the people in her life, I don’t put her down, I send her love and leave her alone to think about it.
