To: I’m not that talented, I’m not pretty, I’m not a high class person,
Me: You are who you project yourself as being and “they” sense that in you and treat you the way you ask to be treated – lift your perception of yourself, go somewhere where nobody knows you and play the part as relaxed confident, pretty and intelligent, even if you are not much and people will see you as you wish to be seen and accept you that way and if you keep up the pretense for long enough, it is who you naturally become – it is how it is and how easy it is to become whoever you want to be from who you don’t want to be, just another loser.
I have been doing this trick for over 50 years and I am on my 10th and best yet “new me”.