You need to be what he wants and needs, which might not be possible.

I don’t think any woman could make me want her uncontrollably. I might want them bad, but I can always let it go with little to no loss of sleep. There’s too many women out there to get insane over one. Honestly.

You would need a perfect storm and know exactly what they want, and in my case, if you’re faking it, I’ll be able to tell and it won’t work. It needs to be genuine. I am not a fan of women who I can clearly see are trying to be something they think I want based on intelligence they gathered. Don’t look at one of my ex and then start talking or sounding like her and coloring your hair like hers because you think I like blomdes because for all you know, I can’t stand her or any of her traits. Don’t know why, but that’s the way it goes.

Say you are married with kids, that’s not something you can or should just snap your fingers and it’s gone. That’s uncontrollable.