“Yes” most of the posts hating men who refuse to work are mine. I’m going through something right now and have nobody to scream to. I just feel so hopeless and used. Why did he do this to me? I’m kicking him out next year. I gave him 18 months to get his s*** together. He thinks I won’t. He’s in for a surprise. He’s a disgrace and cowardly. He won’t even brush his green teeth.