All the patient hard work paid off with my boss. He and I are the only men in a large all female department at work. I am much taller and older with way more experience and skillsets than he has. He was being ridiculously over dominant at first. The gossip chain informed me that he was feeling professionally threatened by me. It got to the point where our mutual attitudes were creating open conflict. So one evening we were talking at the office after hours and making progress on the friction and he admitted that me allegedly being gay was a barrier for him. I laughed and said he should get his facts straight that I was actually bi. That caught him off guard. But since the gloves were off and it was time to shoot straight he opened his office bar and poured us both a drink. I got through to him that I had no interest in his job and that I was more than happy to stay in my lane if he coild get through his thick skull that I am the type that defines success as everything works in everybody’s favor. At that point the work issues were over and it was calm if a little awkward. He blurted out how does being bi work it sounded like it would be confusing. I told him it was simple for me because I only do one sided s** because I have severe space invasion issues and never let another person touch me, that I only enjoyed putting the female body and the occasional male body through its paces because I relished the response, which is why I had a basement dungeon that I use to knock someone out of their heads for a while and teach them a wide range of sensations and that I considered it a form of distraction therapy for them and me so like my work philosophy everyone wins. We called a truce and the next few days he realized I was sincere. Work got way better fast for everyone. Then one Saturday morning I get a text from him asking how to get a distraction therapy appointment and once I recovered from the surprise I told him the clinic had open hours and all he had to do was put work behind trust my sincerity and show up. I was doubtful he would but a bit later there he was on the doorstep. I reminded him that work and issues get left outside, and told him to go downstairs undress and lay on the b****** table. When I followed he was naked trembling and eyes closed. I bound his wrists and ankles and put a blindfold and heavy earmuffs on him (i do not believe in gags because I want to hear every response) and just told him there would be no pain no injuries no violations, that his only rule was to let himself feel and experience.. And then for a few hours I wracked every sensation and response from him that was possible. I wrecked that man’s mind. When he was exhausted I told him I was going to free his wrists and that it was probably best if he was allowed to leave without facing me. Made him aware that he was free to use the shower and to take his time to pull himself together and leave when he was ready. That Monday morning none of this ever happened. I was actually playing Halo when I heard him leave. And that Monday morning work ran like a well oiled machine. Negativity and attitudes vanished because he was no longer overcompensating for dominance and all the women in the department felt it. I am never the kiss and tell type, but one of my co workers has the occasional appointment at the basement distraction therapy clinic and late in the week asked me if I knew what had changed with him. I simply told her you never know what can suddenly change someone as she well knew. Months went by and I was only slightly surprised when I got a weekend text from him asking if the clinic would be open and I told him repeat patientsare always welcome.