Nice guys do finish last. That doesn’t mean be an a****** intentionally kicked my sand in someones face unprovoked, but just be in a position where people know “If I push him to far this way, he will hand me my a**”. Don’t be the dink nerd on the phone at the bank giving me sarcasm for not saying hi, how are you today and then guilt tripping my me about making it through COVID 19 pandemic when a lot of other people didn’t because I want to cancel my credit card insurance. Did I f****** ask? No? Shut the f*** up and do what I’m asking you to do.

Sometimes admittedly, my not caring might go a slight bit too far in the wrong places. For example, I had to pick up some bread at a bakery for my job. Italians. The place I’m working for was started by Italians. I was hired by them over 20 years ago. I have some hard feeling for his daughter. Long story I won’t get into but I don’t like her. they haven’t owned it Olin close to 20 years. I have not seen them since. So I go to this place to get bread. As I’m backing in my truck with a recognizable logo on it, a cube van is also pulling in to pick something up. I am opening the back door of my truck, getting some racks out of the back and I recognize one guy in the truck from the meat place. A butcher shop owned by the best friend of the original owner of the place I work. The other guy who I think was driving has a changed head, he looks a bit older than me. Maybe 60. Not a big guy. They came over and stood there behind me watching what I’m doing. I say to them over my shoulder knowing they want to do the same “I won’t be long here… couple minutes” the guy with the shaved head says “Yeah, no problem, it’s alright…” I figured they would go back to their truck, leave me alone and not breath down my neck while I work. These racks are kind of awkward and heavy, I need to stack them on a cart. They stood there watching me which actually irritated me honestly. I hate that. Being watched while I work. I go up, slide the racks to the back and start to stack them down on a cart. They are a bit awkward, the bald guy saw me struggling so he gave me a bit of a hand straightening them out which also annoyed me. I don’t like that. He asks me “where do you guys deliver bread” I’m not really looking at the guy, I’m actually annoyed. My answer was “Ah… everywhere” which is not really an answer. I realized I might be being too short with the guy, so I then quickly gave him a few specifics “Yeah, here, and there…” both out of town. He responds with “Oh really?… Here and there? Huh….” Yeah, then that was kind of it. I went in, did what I had to do, and got out of there. But I was thinking about it after, the guy’s face…. I didn’t recognize him as a person, I have never seen him before BUT he could very well have been the first owner. Something about his face. When I knew him he had a dark head of thick hair, and he was 20 years younger. My first thought was that it could be his brother who I never met, that family is known in town, but it could very well have been him my old boss. Who despite the negative feelings I have for his daughter, she hurt me badly, I would not have been that short with the guy if it was him. I work have shook his hand and told him it was good to see him.