I met a German man up in cairns as well but I couldn’t stay up because I had serious dizziness from going up to karanda and I can’t believe there was a ballroom them at one stage. I mean this German guy was freaking gorgeous but I was so ill everything was spinning for 2 days and nights. that is the worst thing that a lot of people just don’t understand with middle ear problems and Meniere’s or labyrinthitis. I think most people think its some joke til it happens to them. I had episodes of it as a child. I just want a guy who will put up with my problems as much as me because of that and my heart issues etc. I can’t just take life for granted or my health. I think that was one of the problems with me growing up because I was such a cautious child most of the time. I didn’t like risk takers and people who take so much for granted when life is rather fragile. Some men just never work this out.