When you are married, that union is of God. Even during hard times you should honor and obey your vows. Something that is never under any circumstances of God is an affair. God does not send you anyone else when you are already committed to another that you took solemn vows with. No matter what. If someone is trying to convince you otherwise, that comes from the enemy. The enemy will send someone to you and will try to trick you into believing that it’s something that is meant to be, your soul mate that took all these years to find, and many other lies that are designed to steal your soul and your place in heaven. You should pray for the veil to be lifted from your eyes so you can see things for what they really are. The same one who is always in your ear filling you with so many words of affirmation, is the same one sent by satan to destroy you.