I’m not mean. I mean I am a d***, but not because of this. I’m picky and brutally honest. I let people know what I want upfront so there’s no suprises later. I try to treat everyone with kindness and empathy, regardless of whether I want to date or f*** them or not. Id rather hold out for the perfect girl my entire life than settle for one who’s not good enough. When women do that, they get praised. When men do that, they get called shallow.