If you want to have choices, you need to be physically dominant. It doesn’t mean you have to be a p************ or rude or condescending towards people, just be yourself, be a good decent human being, love what you love. Just physically train so that you can physically best anyone around you. This way, people being aggressive won’t deter you from doing what is right or what is best for you and the people that matter to you. You don’t have to f*** people over, just be physically dominant so that you have the option to not have to take peoples s*** for no reason, if it is unjustified, fucked up, incorrect, stupid, whatever.

I am in a position right now and have been for some years, where if I had just dropped so much focus on useless s***, and instead put more energy into physical conditioning and martial arts, I wouldn’t have to take s*** from these people. At the end of the day, it always comes down to, “What are you going to do about it?” And if you don’t have physical dominance, they have complete control of the situation. It doesn’t matter what the actual truth is, some people are just pieces of s***.

If I had to do it over again, I would have tried to get into a martial art when I was in my late teens maybe, and just stuck with it, but keeping in mind the purpose. To have autonomy. Like yes, violence not a great thing and all that, and so training to fight and kill sounds kind of counter to the “peace movement” or whatever, but the bottom line is, if you’re stuck in a situation with p************ people, you absolutely require physical dominance.

This way you don’t have to take time to please people that don’t matter. You can just do your own thing and be on your own way. No issues.