Currently my own worst enemy. It was fucked up enough that I was being a willing enthusiastic c** dump for a married friend. Granted I let amazing s** cloud my head on it, both doing it and getting attached to him was my fault. I got played mistaking the rush of incredible s** for attachment. And since his wife is also a friend and years ago former gf who cheated on me, there is that. And then in a warped frame of trying to help with the fallout of a mess I mostly created (giving myself some slack because I never started it the s** only ever was initated by him, not that I ever resisted or turned him down), I am giving his wife a place to stay while this shakes out. And now she is asking my help in dealing with him on ending their marriage. She is heartbroken, surprisingly not blaming me, but she is done and he is being a jerk over her natural response to his actions. And meanwhile I could go down for alienation of affection for both sides. Way to go, me.