So married fb’s wife just left after we talked s*** over. She asked for details and got them. Her biggest question was actually not his “why” but mine. Had I been his queer side piece to get back at her for hurting me long ago. I told her that honestly that was not a thing at all, that she was not the only woman I felt lied and cheated and manipulated with and without giving/witholding s**. I told her that yes I had developed a thing for her husband and that that was somewhere that freaked me out but that at the end of the day he was simply f****** incredible in bed. But she said that he had shown no interest for far longer than I had been doing him. So his actions are a bit strange to us both. And she is very attractive with a seriously fine figure so neither of us knows what his deal was when he started things with me. She said she was not in the mood to look at him yet but should prob go home and I told her that if it got too hard to deal with then she could stop by any time because regardless of their marriage I am pissed at him for blowing me off for a week and not at least letting me know he was going to fess up to his wife. She asked me for the favor of if it got rough and he bailed to please at least not have s** with him any more and assured her that she probably had a better chance of being in bed with me than he did right now so no worries. So at least I made her laugh despite being the c** dump for her husband.