I kind of know this guy who treats me like a diary on Facebook. He says it helps him. He will disappear, sometimes for years, only to emotionally unload out of nowhere. It’s not that I mind that—I know he doesn’t actually care about me at all and that’s fine. But his life is out of control..drugs, drinking, destroying his body. I do care and I don’t know how to or if I can help. I know I probably can’t do anything.