Of course they do. Some just marry for the benefits and don’t even really like the man they married. She might not even be s******* attracted, but he’s a free ride and a nice lifestyle so it’s easy enough to just go in that direction. Which might eventually lead to cheating with someone better looking.

I would say most, NOT ALL, but the majority marry woke me they really don’t want to.

Seriously, the ideal in any relationship, is a healthy dose of distance and nobody getting worked up over anything. Keeping things like they were at the start. Where you are absolutely confident that no matter what she is up to when you are apart, it could be a week, maybe longer, but you are absolutely confident that you are that good, she likes you so much, she will be back and she is thinking about you. You keep your emotions to themselves, let her live let her judge the other, compare to you, knowing she will be back. That’s the way it is for me anyway.

Marriage and living together is a no go. Spend days together sometimes, sure, but not living together, certainly not marriage. I don’t know how any man can want to marry a woman who he knows he got based on what he has, his positions, salary, lifestyle, not based on her genuine attraction to him. A good digger.

There are couples out there with less drama, they don’t draw too much attention, they’re plain and they just want to be together with someone, they are not digging for anything, they don’t cheat, yeah, they’ll probably last.

If you want a relationship where the fire stays, it needs to be with distance and patience. That’s hard to find, it’s not easy getting two people on the same page but it’s the only thing that works.