marriage does not mean anything in 2021. Actually it doesn’t mean anything for the personal relationship between the 2 of you, it does mean everything that is one person’s, becomes 2 people’s. Assets, time, privacy, independance that kind of thing which leaves the door open for one person to get with another person for the sole purpose of walking away with half. It potentially leaves room for a person to get a free ticket to lazyville. It’s kind of pointless and dumb, people cheat. That’s just life, I don’t even know if I have been cheated on at any time, I’m not sure if anybody my relationships could be considered relationship enough for it to be considered cheating, without a doubt I have been with multiple girls at a given time, I know for a fact I have been with women who are doing more than just me, a lot more, I don’t know and technially I don’t care, but in my experience, I have known quite a few girls and women who were with a guy, committed for years to the same guy, and we never had s** or kissed or anything like that, and they can deny it but there was some connection there between us. Emotionally. To the point that I also believe that when they chose to separate themselves from me, not an ugly goodbye, I am a good guy, I am mature, I can handle separation even when it kind of hurts and I want them, but they separate from me or leave, I believe partly anyway, because they feel guilty about what they are feeling for me, when they have someone they have committed to and who is committed to them. So they let me go.

Which is fine. We things are not meant to be, I can take it, but my point is, these are also what I consider good girls. Despite that I still would get with or date a few of them, and we didn’t do anything, but some of that electricity and the moments we shared…. if that was my girlfriend, I would want to know, and if I cared enough, it might be grounds to break up.

I have never been married and I think that if you are cool enough to do it once, because it really doesn’t mean anything, it’s not necessary. For some people its and expensive party in an exotic location and being the center of attention. But what’s the point? You will probably end up in an expensive and damaging (If you are the one losing half of everything for the rest of your life). It does not make any sense, but alright…. so you take the plunge once because you need to learn lessons the hard way, first hand… If you go beyond that and marry 4x…. I don’t even know what to say to that…. Once, alright, 2x you are a slow learner, 3x, 4x? You are beyond any help in the head. Why?