You are better off working on yourself and not even thinking about “love”.

I’m not the person who posted that Gold digger post but I think they’re wrong too. You shouldn’t be putting any effort or thought into that kind of s*** at all. He/she is putting too much thought into it giving that advice. The politics. You best bet is to work, have fun on your own terms, get better, reach highs, and love yourself. love, s** and women are nothing but a distraction IN MOST CASES.

As soon as I lost hope and faith in that s*** around 10 years ago I put all that energy into me, work, what I do, hobbies, things I enjoy it’s just been a constant flow of reaching new levels and plateau which continues to this day. It’s things like for example a credit card. 1 credit card worth $1000. A big deal for a guy like me who started caring about such things relatively late in life. Get that, be responsible, next thing you know another credit card. And then boosts on those cards, often. Then the big one, a new car. And then I messed up a bit and didn’t see many plateaus for a while, a few years. Straightened myself out buckled down, fixed thingS and then just in the past 3 months alone I got a $2.50/hr raise and more hours at work, a $3000 boost on that first card AND just last week ANOTHER credit card. Pre Approved, I didn’t apply for it, through my car loan bank, which I never missed a single payment on which means my credit rating is good.

You get fucked up mentally with a woman, especially the wrong one, a bad woman, gold digger or not, your “love” for her can easily bring that and you all down to the ground in every way, mentally, financially, I have been there. It could be something like stress drinking or eating. It could be her actually being a gold digger. It could be her being a s*** f****** everyone she and you know and then some, causing you all kinds of b******* anguish, causing you to allow everything you worked for to crumble to the ground. Maybe she is secretly hung up on one or more of her ex’. That will cause you mental anguish. MAYBE she just wants you to support her, well that’s not good either. No woman (leach) or anythingnshe has to offer (if there is anything, s** doesn’t count) is worth that.

Live for you and don’t give anyone any of it. There 100 things I can name off the top of my head better than love, s** and women. UNLESS she’s a truly good woman who is worthwhile. In other words she doesn’t need you for anything, she might even make more money than you do, and she’s a good person which you can’t even tell until you know her for a while. You definitely need to be able to carry yourself though too. Don’t ever fall for or go gaga over a woman that you have not determined to be a good woman through knowing her. Screening her. And be sure of it.