To: Iam 30yr old, happily married and a mother of two year old baby boy.
Me: You never met in person, it was always a contact with a person who may or maybe not, have been the person who you thought they were.
It was easy to fall in love with a person who you never met, who ticked all of the boxes and that is understandable, depending on how lonely you felt at the time and how you connected emotionally with this invisible person, when you were together, online.
What you dream of a person, online, is rarely how they actually are or might have turned out, if you ever met in the flesh.
You are happy in the relationship you have with a real person who you have a child by and that is fact.
The person you were connecting with online, was a lie, because you never met and he probably did not want to.
It is nice to have dreams about people who you connected with and to wonder what might have happened if the impossible became a factual thing and I often wonder if I made the right choices in life and if I could have, or should have tried harder with some of the women who I met in life, but passed on – but there is no way of being able to go back and I guess that is life!!
S*** happens for all of the wrong reasons.
Be happy with what you have got, because this is what you ended up with and keep your secrets where they deserve to be, as skeletons in your imaginary cupboard – we all have them – that is called “life”.
R