How D********** Has Doubled My Orgasms
A position viewed as degrading has become my most pleasurable female power play.
Bradlee Bryant
Bradlee Bryant
Dec 27, 2020 · 4 min read
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There are some women who think d********** s** is degrading, submissive and lacking intimacy.

There are some men who claim doggy-style is evil, and others who suggest it may be dangerous for its p****-fracturing risks.

I emphatically disagree with those women — and thank God my husband isn’t in agreement with those particular men — because d********** is freaking hot, and my absolute favorite s** position.

In this article, I’m talking about d********** s** between a cisgender man and a cisgender woman, where the man is the one doing the penetrating. It’s certainly not the only way to enjoy doggy, it’s just the only way I’ve enjoyed doggy…so far.

When I first started having s**, I opted for the skin on skin connection and simplicity of the m******************.

D********** wasn’t even on my radar until I was well into my 20’s.

In a way, I can understand why some women think doggy lacks intimacy, or why it might make them feel dominated, because I didn’t really give it a shot until I was in an intimate and loving partnership with my husband.

I used to think s***** intimacy and passion meant making love face-to-face, with lots of skin-to-skin contact and loving kisses scattered tenderly all over each other.

As I became more s******* confident and experienced, my feelings on s***** positions and what constituted intimacy changed dramatically.

Instead of avoiding d**********, or listening to what society told me about it being a degrading position focused solely on the male partner’s pleasure, I explored it with a more s******* liberated attitude.

Since I also happen to be part of the minority of women who can climax from penetrative s** alone, I don’t mind that doggy almost entirely ignores my c***. That just gives me the opportunity to experience the combination of deep body-shaking vaginal or g***** orgasms from penetrative s** while also riding the smaller waves of pleasure by stimulating my c*** with my trusty magic wand.

If you’re like me, doggy-style doubles your chances of reaching climax and gives you the opportunity to have various types of orgasms.

Once I realized how much my body enjoyed deep penetrative s**, and got comfortable manually stimulating my c***, I was completely hooked on d**********.

If you’ve never tried it or aren’t already convinced it’s just as hot as I say it is, here are the big reasons it’s my favorite s** position:

My c*** is available for play. Either his hands, my hands, or my v******* provide the stimulation to take me over the edge again and again. There’s also the added bonus of his balls slapping against my c*** when he really gets going — and that’s hot!
It’s deep and hard, and you already know I like it slow, hard, and deep.
My a** is available for slapping, playing, grabbing, and maneuvering.
My hair is accessible. He can pull it, or I can enjoy the sensation of it softly touching my back, shoulders, and chest as we rock and move.
It keeps things tight and my twerk game is on point — no more squats necessary for this girl. Plus if you do doggy with your legs together, it literally keeps things tighter, as in the sensation might be better for the both of you.
D***************** with easy access. Enough said.
He can lean down and kiss, touch, grab, or lick my back/neck/cheek. Or place a hand in the middle of my back to coax my a** ever higher in the air.
His balls are accessible, and I can reach back and pull him into me.
My breasts bounce up and down, are available for touching, and earn yummy sensations when they move or graze the surface below.

Loving d********** is empowering

The stereotypes suggest d********** is degrading to women, in part, because it’s a position that involves very little eye contact, which might make it easier for a man to objectify or dehumanize his partner.

Guess what I think about all of society’s s***** stereotypes? F*** ’em.

We’re smarter and more s******* evolved than we’ve ever been before — especially as women. We spent far too much time convinced we should be shy or inhibited about our s******** and desires. We’ve endured decades of lackluster s** because we’ve been socialized to view things as normal, or not normal — and good, or not good.

We don’t need society to help us define our s***** preferences and tell us what is or isn’t an acceptable way to find pleasure.

We’re no longer ashamed of what turns us on because we know that owning it will save us from a life of mediocre s**.

Now, instead of viewing things through the lens of societal stereotypes, we’ve started to get comfortable embracing exactly what we like and exploring the things we might.

D**********, which has always been considered a male pleasure-driven s** position, is my very female power position.
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