GUYS I NEED HELP ABOUT MY CRUSH
Ok so first of all do you think confessing to a crush is good thing or a bad thing and why? I’m that kind of person that’s not vry secretive. I mean you can trust with your secrets but my own secrets is what I tell.
Second question: Wht are some ways to confess to a crush?
I’m planning to confess to mine before I graduate school (not if u guys vote for NO). He’s the same batch as me. We’re not very close but we say hi or smile when we see each other. We talk sometimes but its casual like how’s your day and stuff.
He’s a really nice guy and very friendly. He likes to hang out with his friends and I sometimes see him reading his books peacefully yet really focused. It’s just that this secret bugs me a lot and I need your help.
Thank you.
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This seems a little .. teenyboppy. Like a question you can easily as your high school best friend and get an answer to and not much or a secret. But I mean, we can’t really give you advice. Either you tell them or you don’t I mean the worse that can happen is rejection but life is harder than just wondering about a crush.
I don’t really see the issue.
Personally I think it’s better to wait until graduation to tell him. But more importantly, do think about what you want to get out of your confession. Do you just want to get it off your chest? Do you want to date him? You’ll probably be able to handle his reaction better.
In my experience, no, you don’t just blurt it out. Actually even if you end up with them, it’s never a good idea to tell them you like/love them much. Rarely. You need to be smart about that. Only when it counts. That is unfortunately a truth.
The best and only thing you can do with a crush and you need to be careful here too, is show them you like them in small ways. For example, I have a crush on a girl. I like her because I can tell there is certain things she does that makes me think she likes me. She tries. I like her, but I’m not showing it, because like I said, you can’t. I happen to be in a place where I see her coming, she sees me see her coming, I keep going in the opposite direction from where she’s coming, going to where I was going. Acer being out of sight 2 doors ahead I stop, go back and hold ne of those doors open fof her and let her walk through like a queen, just because “how are you? Going here? Alright see you later….”
Thank you. This helped me.
Don’t overthink it, if it doesn’t work there’s plenty of other niggas that’ll wanna smash/date. Be yourself most importantly
Never outright confess a crush. It blindsides the other person and even if they like you, they will automatically reject you 9 times out of 10. Instead ask him out on a date. As a dude, I have never turned down an offer of a date from a girl because very free girls actually have that kind of courage and I admire that – a lot.
*very few
But I guess ‘free’ applies as well 🙂