I feel like I’m forever going to be alone. Not in a physical sense but when I’m with my friends or family I just fee emty and numb as cliche as it sounds. I’m 17 and have never had a boyfriend before and maybe that’s because I’m too much of an introvert and people think I’m stuck up, or maybe it’s because I push people away when they get close. All I know is that it’s something I’m going to have to do myself if I want to put myself out there but at the moment I feel so helpless. I just want someone to understand.
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I understand but got to a point where I’ve given up. At least you’ve decided to get out there, i’m happy for you that you can do that.
Hey, first of all keep in mind that you are not alone – there are many like you. Or say, we all are introvert to some degree in some pursuit of life. I would suggest you to find time to read some self-help literature of watch motivational videos on YouTube or listen to podcasts about personal excellence. Best would be if you can find someone whom you can put all your trust and talk wholeheartedly – be it a sibling, cousin, friend, boyfriend, partner, or just some social contact whom you think you keep secret but that person in quite trustworthy. Above all, be your best friend – talk to yourself against mirror or record yourself in mobile – make video, listen/watch and delete. Develop self-confident, only then you can find someone to trust upon. Someone somewhere is definitely waiting for you. Stay blessed.?
I don’t want any friends but want an s/o desperately! When I was a little kid (7-9 years old) I tried to kiss all the boys in my grade(and one girl who I am still in love with).