I was having a five month affair with a much younger married woman (24 years younger). She’s a head turner, smart, affectionate and sweet and it was like a drug high, massive highs and big lows when we were apart. We tried to stop so many times both being wracked with guilt. Now an old girlfriend has come to stay with for three months. She’s closer to my age (51) and still beautiful but I can’t get this younger woman out of my head. We stopped the affair but I half wish she’ll realise she’s with the wrong man and leave him for me. I feel guilty encouraging this old girlfriend to travel halfway around the world to give it another shot but I was desperate to move on to a healthy relationship and give the younger woman a chance to fix things in her marriage. But the truth is I want to have babies with this girl, I even love her family and wish we could just be together everyday.
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You mistake the matters of age and societies perception of what is right and wrong.
Lucky you a girl so young who wanted to be with you – and you pushed her away.
Was me and I’m older than you by roughly 23 years, I would have enjoyed every moment and wanted her to be with me for the rest of my life.
Whe I died, I would have left her all of my assets and she would have been able to live comfortably for the rest of her life.
My partner, a female 6 months older than me, was with a guy who at one stage was head of MI-6 and 20 something years older than her and she loved him to bits and stayed with him until he passed away some 10 years ago.
The only time relationships with much younger people is wrong, is when they are kids and you as an adult and you should not have that sort of relationship with a kid under 18, otherwise it is up to the individuals concerned and nobodies business but their own.
Good luck with the latest female, I hope it works out for you both – still…..
Best Wishes….