I think my gf is cheating on me. Two weeks ago she was telling me about changing her life and how she wants to be at peace with herslf and others and then, out of the blue, she was telling me the sister of his ex was talking to her, and then the mum of her exx and then her ex was talking to her. She told me that when he ddid she didn’t feel anything and that it was something that made her felt as if she was growing. I said, ok that’s good. Then three days after that she ended up telling me she couldn’t help me with money this month because she remembered she owed these people $2000. She stopped seeing them three years ago and, alll of a suddenly, she owes them money. Then she started a discussion because I told her that was odd and then, lately she has been talking a lot over her phone, she didn’t do it before and then…she took some pictures telling they were for me but she never got the chance to send them over, and then, today she decided to publish one of them on her Instagram.

I’m just…sad I don’t know what to do or say without this being an argument and me being a paranoic or a controller or something…

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