Nobody should have such a self-centered parent like I do, who will keep their child busy in any condition to accomplish their dreams, to win their competitions around other relatives, no matter how poor physical condition I have, no matter how much money I have earned, it’s everything all about keep doing what they want me to do in order to marry a girl of their choice, oops not both of them, only mom, dad is like a dog that barks with owner Mom. Such mentalities has faced up freedom. I still respect them and wish for their wellbeing.
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parents do this in America? shit, I thought this only in my third world country
It is time to put your foot down and move out. You are 28 years old after all.
No, American parent allow way more freedom than that, they respect adult hood and personal freedom and decisions etc, I was talking about the country where all fucked up things are camouflaged under cultural bullshit and ancestor’s dominance.
I know this very well, if I die my mom will cry because her dreams are still unaccomplished,…. “what haven’t we done for you that Sam’s parent did for him, you will never be able to earn like Sam..look how successful he is “…. Hahaha fucking dogs can only sniff other dogs butt, can not be themselves.
Agree, though one can say they fed us, raised us with their blood and bone, sympathy, gratefulness etc etc, but remember they did that to make you the one they want you to be, I would like to know that if every parent are told right when a child is born that ” your child will not obey you, and will not be the one you want it to be. But will be a good selfdependent person”… How many of them are still happy.
Middle-East concept, my child, I will decide… Even if it commits suicide, I will blame the society and bring another one to follow my dream… I feel bad too
Just say no. I’m tired and have had enough! Let them go accomplish their on dreams. You have your dreams and they have their own. They should live their life, not yours!
Ya, I loved a girl, wanted to marry her, but my parent did not like her family background, still the marriage was all set, suddenly my parent insulted the girl’s paren so obnoxiously, that they took their daughter away from me. Now my parent are so happy and tries to console me saying “it’s good she went away, she didn’t love you “… I mean what the heck!
That society is also sick as outnumbered by such parent, when one dog howls,the others follow. They are always like “that boy is so mean, and do not like his parents.. Bla bla ” and the dad always threatens of having a heart attack, and the mom cries sympathetically, accusing the child for everything. These dummies won’t never understand.