A lot of the things I say can be interpreted as -phobic or -ist (racist, sexist, you name it). I swear I mean good, I just want to say what I see. Yeah, it’s a pretty lame defense. I don’t mean anything by pointing out, hey, there’s a lotta trans people in this community, but it’s a constant worry that saying that is gonna be interpreted as rude. I just spend a lot of time watching people, and noticing those things.