my boyfriend is really shallow when it comes to me/women but he has manboobs and is 100lbs or so overweight. He will try to pretend hes confident but hes very insecure and jealous. he is a mean girl in a male fat suit. i wouldn’t even be friends with him if he were a girl based on his personality and, as a man i cant like him for the same reasons he chose me. he gets into rages with me often because i see all this stuff and stay. he wants me to delude him that he is more kind and more attractive. i’m taller too and i’m an average height woman.