My sister and I are in our 30s. I’m really close to my sister and consider her one of my closest friends. She got married this year. Even now as adults I spend at least one day per week with her and her husband, who I’ve also known for over 10 years and is also a close friend. I’m 6 years older than her. When we were kids I used to get her to do s***** things with me, including oral when she was age 8-9. This lasted for a little over a year and happened at least 20 times.
We’ve never spoken about it, not once in our adult lives. The thing is, I don’t think she’s forgiven me for it, I don’t actually think she remembers any of it. She has a hormonal problem that she takes medication for. It causes some memory loss and she is generally forgetful anyway. She’s never acted uncomfortable around me, she trust me with her secrets, she comes to me with problems, and we have a really close but normal sibling relationship now. She has never acted like there’s any issue or any history between us which I find a bit weird but I’m also endlessly grateful for. If to her, it never happened, then I intend to keep it that way.
