I have a boyfriend of 3 years, known for 6, who I plan to get engaged to next year and marry in 2. And I enjoy the banter I have with a male colleague who is getting engaged next year to a fellow work colleague. I have a small crush on him, and I suspect that he has a small crush on me. However, I don’t want to do anything more with him – I just want to have this crush because it’s something ‘fun’ to have while at work (my bf and I do different things so we don’t see each other often at work, which is more than fine by me since I’m not the clingy type). I found this phrase which perfectly sum up how I feel: just because you already ordered from the menu, doesn’t mean you can’t still look at it afterwards.
