After a year of being together, I told my partner I have a s*** fetish and they haven’t been talking to me. They told me they’d love me no matter what, and that they’ve been learning to be more understanding of these things. I feel angry and upset, but I don’t know who to direct those feelings at. I hate having this fetish, I have never been proud of it and I felt comfortable enough with this person to share it with them, and they just leave. I’m so disgusting.